Is it ready to wear, or will I need a tailor?
You'll need a tailor. The set is sold as unstitched fabric: a top piece, a bottom piece and a dupatta. Unstitched means you choose the fit and style, a straight kurta for work or something with more flare, rather than adjusting a ready-made size that may not suit you.
Which trims suit violet when I stitch it?
Silver or gold lace both suit violet; silver keeps it cool and gold warms it up. A thin mint, pink or mustard piping at the neckline and sleeve hems adds a modern touch. Silk or zari tassels on the back dori look pretty. Keep the trim slim so the brocade pattern stays the focus of the kurta.
Will stripes and paisleys together look busy?
Not really, because each piece has its own idea: gold leaf buti with a paisley hem band on the kurta, and diagonal gold stripes on the dupatta. Keep jewellery and footwear simple, and drape the dupatta on one shoulder if you want the kurta's paisley hem border to stay visible.
What's woven on the kurta?
Gold leaf-shaped buti are spread across the violet body, and a paisley band runs along the hem, finished with a narrow gold border with tiny dot edging. The dupatta carries diagonal gold stripes, so between the kurta and the dupatta the set has plenty of woven pattern.
Any tips I should pass on to my tailor?
Three things help with brocade. Overlock or bind the seams, because woven patterns can fray once cut. Plan the layout so motifs sit centred on the front and upright on the sleeves. And keep the design simple, with few darts and seams, so the woven pattern isn't broken up.
Can I wear the dupatta with other outfits?
Yes. At 2.4 to 2.5 metres with woven brocade, it's a full-length dupatta that can lift a plain kurta or a simple solid suit. Pair it with a neutral or a complementary shade so the brocade stays the focus, and you have a second outfit from the same set.
Can I hand-wash it at home?
You can, gently, though dry cleaning is preferred to keep the sheen. Use a mild detergent, wash it on its own, rinse without wringing, roll it in a towel to remove water and dry it in the shade. Direct sunlight can dull silk, so avoid drying it outdoors in the sun.